Maximize Alone Time at Your Micro Wedding: Tips for Creating Intimate Moments

It is easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of planning your big day, even when it's a small event. There are so many things you and your partner must give your time too, and we know it can be easy to lose sight of why you are doing your wedding this way in the first place. Yes, micro wedding are a great way to save money but these aren't the only reason we hold this intimate gathering.

Micro weddings allow you to focus on what truly matters: the love you share and the commitment you’re making to each other.

They offer a chance to create a deeply personal and meaningful celebration, where every moment is cherished and every detail reflects your unique bond. In the midst of coordinating with vendors, finalizing guest lists, and managing timelines, it’s essential to carve out moments of solitude and togetherness for you and your partner.

These private moments can help ground you, allowing you to fully absorb and appreciate the significance of your wedding day. Whether it's a private first look, a quiet walk together before the ceremony, a few secret moments between events, or a private last dance, prioritizing alone time ensures that your connection remains at the heart of the celebration.

Here are some practical tips to help you prioritize alone time on your special day, ensuring that your wedding is as intimate and meaningful as it should be.

Schedule a Private First Look

Before the ceremony begins, set aside a few minutes for a private first look. This intimate moment allows you to see each other for the first time, or gives you your partner your first quiet moment together on your wedding day. As your photographers, we not only love to find beautiful locations for this but we also look for places that are quiet, and away from the eyes and ears of your guests.

The first look is more than just a photo opportunity; it's a chance to pause and breathe together before the whirlwind of the day begins. This quiet time allows you to exchange heartfelt words, hold each other, and truly soak in the reality of your commitment. It can be a grounding experience, providing you both with a sense of calm and connection that will carry through the rest of the day.

Plan a Pre Ceremony Walk

If the first look isn't for you, talking a small walk around your venue with your partner can be another great way to help ground yourselves before all the festivities for the day begin or a great way to reground yourselves in the midst of all the crazy.

This simple yet meaningful act allows you to connect with each other in a quiet moment despite the hustle and bustle of the wedding day. As you stroll hand in hand, you can take in the beauty of the surroundings, share any last-minute thoughts or feelings, and simply enjoy each other's presence before the whirlwind of activities ensues.

Create a Post-Ceremony Escape

After you’ve said your vows, plan for a few minutes alone to savor the moment. Whether it’s a quiet room at the venue or a short walk away from the crowd, this time allows you to reflect on the ceremony and enjoy each other’s company before joining your guests.

The moment you say "I do" is incredibly special and deserves to be savored. After the ceremony, slipping away to a private spot allows you to reflect on the vows you just made and the love you’ve celebrated. This can be a quiet corner of the venue, a hidden garden, or even a room set aside just for you. Take this time to hug, kiss, and simply be together, away from the bustle of guests and activities. It’s a precious opportunity to let the emotions of the ceremony sink in and to enjoy each other’s company before rejoining the celebration.

Incorporate a Private Dance

Schedule a private dance towards the end of the evening. This can be under the stars, in an empty part of the venue, or any quiet spot you can find. It’s a romantic way to end the night and create a lasting memory of your special day.

A private dance offers a magical, intimate moment to end your wedding day. Imagine dancing under a canopy of stars, in a quiet hall, or in a secluded garden, just the two of you. This can be your song, a piece of music that holds special meaning, or even something spontaneous. As you sway together, you’ll be able to reflect on the day, the vows you made, and the love you share. This quiet, romantic moment can be one of the most memorable parts of your wedding, a beautiful way to close the celebration and start your life together.